Applied Chaos

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Applied Chaos is how life feels living with Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder or ADHD. This theory is definately put to the test when three AD/HD people live under the same roof. I am an AD/HD mom raising two AD/HD children and being mom is the most extraordinary experience of my lifetime. My husband WES, is NOT AD/HD and most days the three of us make his head spin. YET he is sooooo amazingly patient, despite the unannounced and sudden mood shifts that can occur when something that should be simple is not. That is the hardest part of living with AD/HD. When things that should be simple are not. I have little tolerance for my downfalls. Sheer frustration can lead to angry outbursts when I have once again misplaced my cell phone, the house phone, any number of bills, the car keys, the dog, or my portable brain (calendar)!

Welcome to my CRAZY life!!!!

I was diagnosed with AD/HD as an adult and only after both my children were diagnosed. When I received my diagnosis of ADHD I had a moment of awakening and suddenly soo many things made complete sense. I finally began to understand so many things about myself.

Now I wish to hear from you. Yes, you out there reading this blog about living with ADHD. How has ADHD been a blessing, a curse, a help, or a hinder. I dislike the word disorder at the end. of Attention Defidit Hpyperactive...I do not believe that it is a disorder. Disorder makes it sound like a malfunction. People with ADHD are not broken, just different.

I hope you will share on this blog how ADHD has changed your life for the better and how you cope with the experiment in Applied Chaos that goes with ADHD on a daily basis.

Often people with ADHD can feel lost and overwhelmed yet, you are not alone and there is always a light at the eend of the tunnel. Tell me how do YOU find the light at the end of the tunnel when life seems to be an endless experiment in Applied Chaos?! I look forward to hearing from YOU!!!

Have a blessed day~



Erika Lyn Smith



January 21, 2010

Defining ADD and ADHD

Attention Deficit Disorder or ADD is a neurological based behavior disorder. Neurological based disorder means there is a real place for ADD in the medical field. ADD is not a mythical illness, although many people would like us to believe otherwise. There is no definitive medical or lab test to diagnose someone with ADD. There are however, three definite symptoms, which help doctors diagnose someone with ADD. These include inattention or difficulty paying attention, impulsivity or acting without thinking, and hyperactivity or constant high-level of energy or motion.

These symptoms of inattention, impulsivity, and hyperactivity must affect more than one aspect of a child or person’s life. A child cannot be hyperactive and impulsive at home and have no difficulties at school or in his or her social life. A situation like this would more likely be a result of inadequate or uneducated parenting. When a child is acting out only at school or home, it may signify a more severe problem exists in the family. This holds true for adults who have difficulty at work but not at home or in a social setting.

There are signs that Attention Deficit Disorder is a hereditary condition or has familial tendencies. A hereditary condition means that although not yet established more than likely, there is a genetic connection. A familial tendency means one or more family members, usually a parent, is diagnosed ADD or demonstrates similar symptoms of the disorder. Many adults diagnosed with Adult ADD did not receive a diagnosis until one or more of their own children received the diagnosis.

Other factors related to problems in pregnancy, being born too early, injury during birth or exposure to toxic chemicals, like lead paint in early childhood can be a reason a child exhibits the symptoms of ADD. ADD is not a mental illness, nor is it an excuse for bad behavior. There have been a variety of names for ADD in the past, including minimal brain dysfunction and brain damaged syndrome. Most medical professionals now refer to ADD or ADHD simply as AD/HD or Attention Deficit/Hyperactive Disorder.